So many people we meet in our life. Some stay, some leave. Some stay for a certain time teach us something, a lesson for life and leave. I happened to meet this girl in one of my journeys back. It all started with a Hi and soon we were talking. And this is what she happened to share ( I'll write it down as she is narrating it).
" So I happened to meet this guy, through a mutual friend.As a normal story we talked fell for each other...but the twist here is the insecurity.the insecurity from his side that his parents wont approve and from my side of loosing him,which arose from his insecurity.Eventually we ended up fighting and things ended.The end was easy for him to handle, but not for me. I was devastated. Had lost my mind. Didn't know what to do now. As I had presumed my world revolved around him. The Sun of my solar system was gone. And everything was falling apart. I decided I can't handle this anymore, So tried finishing the pain. But that also went in vein. I felt all the doors were closed for me as I'm an emotional person. Somehow time passed by. And with that I was understanding something, was learning something. Was learning about ME. How to love myself to be independent and a bit less emotional. And the doors started to open. One by One as each door opened I walked on a new path and learnt new lesson of life. At the end I thank him for what all happened, Because if his insecurity had not lead to all this, The all good would not have happened."
The conversation ended there.She slept, And I was awake thinking how we happen to decide whether the door is OPEN or CLOSED. What we feel is the end is actually a new beginning. We all go through this in life. The Closed door gives us frustration, irritation, sadness and with the current technology depression too. But all it takes is Optimism.That its just the wait. A new doors going to open soon. This taught me a new lesson. Never all the doors are closed. There is always one open. Which He has kept for our good. All it takes is acceptance for one that yes something good is going to happen from here. And walk ahead.
" So I happened to meet this guy, through a mutual friend.As a normal story we talked fell for each other...but the twist here is the insecurity.the insecurity from his side that his parents wont approve and from my side of loosing him,which arose from his insecurity.Eventually we ended up fighting and things ended.The end was easy for him to handle, but not for me. I was devastated. Had lost my mind. Didn't know what to do now. As I had presumed my world revolved around him. The Sun of my solar system was gone. And everything was falling apart. I decided I can't handle this anymore, So tried finishing the pain. But that also went in vein. I felt all the doors were closed for me as I'm an emotional person. Somehow time passed by. And with that I was understanding something, was learning something. Was learning about ME. How to love myself to be independent and a bit less emotional. And the doors started to open. One by One as each door opened I walked on a new path and learnt new lesson of life. At the end I thank him for what all happened, Because if his insecurity had not lead to all this, The all good would not have happened."
The conversation ended there.She slept, And I was awake thinking how we happen to decide whether the door is OPEN or CLOSED. What we feel is the end is actually a new beginning. We all go through this in life. The Closed door gives us frustration, irritation, sadness and with the current technology depression too. But all it takes is Optimism.That its just the wait. A new doors going to open soon. This taught me a new lesson. Never all the doors are closed. There is always one open. Which He has kept for our good. All it takes is acceptance for one that yes something good is going to happen from here. And walk ahead.
